This post is titled “This is why……why I don’t loan out
my books”, but I really wanted to name it “Death of a Book – and Possibly a
Friendship”. This post is a rant and its
purpose is to raise awareness of book abuse.
This problem is real people and must be stopped.
A co-worker/friend stopped by my home-away-from-home (a.k.a.
my cubicle) this morning wanting to know if I had read a certain book yet. Although I have not, I do own the book and it
is currently sitting in my mountain of books to be read at some point in my
lifetime. She was going to loan it to me
if I did not have it, but also wanted to show me something. What she had to show me was so sad and so
heartbreaking I almost broke down and wept at what I saw. See, my friend loaned out her book to another
person. At the time, the book was
pristine and in perfect condition. She
expected it to be returned in somewhat the same condition, but this is what she
got back:
I know……truly sad, right? I just could not believe my eyes. I mean, how could someone take another person’s
property and totally destroy it like this.
This book had stains on it of some unknown origin (gross), the cover in
total shambles and what appeared to be water damage on most of the pages.
Let's take a moment and say a prayer for this travesty.
Okay...moment over....let the ranting commence.
I treasure my books.
Yes, I know they are just books, but I take great care in trying to keep
my books in the greatest condition possible.
This book is a really good example on why I do not loan out my books. If a friend wants to read a book, I will
recommend something to them all day long, but if they want to borrow it, then
they can a) either go borrow it from the library or b) just go buy it.
When I loan something out, whether it be a book or
whatever, I expect it to be returned in the same condition it left. No excuses.
The way this book was returned would be grounds for hard feelings and
possibly loss of friendship. My answer
to this problem is to not even loan out my stuff…..never, ever. Problem. Solved.
So, I ask you, do you loan out your books or do you
just recommend something? How would you
have handled a situation like this?
Don’t be shy……let your voice be heard!
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